10 Ways to Be Cunning at Cunnilingus

 Fact: women love oral sex. They want men who can get down and dirty, and give them the best pleasure of their lives – even without penetration. Unfortunately, not all men are capable of this. Worse yet, not all men know how to please a woman down there.
Apparently, licking her honey pot is more than just giving her lip service. Believe it or not, giving your girl a different kind of pleasure down south requires an extra effort.
This means you need to lay down all your tools and bring it out on the table one by one to provide her with the best oral sex she deserves.
You might say, “Every girl is different. How will I know if this will work with her?” Hmm, good question. Sure, every girl has certain set of preferences. However, the end goal is always the same: she wants to experience the best oral sex of her life.
Grab a pen and paper and list these 10 things that will help you give her the best oral of her life.

1. Keep Her Comfortable

This is the first rule you need to remember when it comes to sex and women. Keep in mind that if your girl is not relaxed, it will show in her body language, too. The result: a kind of sex, which both of you will not enjoy.
Hence, keep her comfortable. By nature, women are self-conscious and concerned with how they look without their clothes.
Plus, women and orgasms are not exactly best of friends, so it might take a while before they meet. This can add on to her anxiety.
In other words, do your best to keep the situation as normal as possible. Focus on her body and give her compliments. Help her ease any tension, so she can be comfortable all throughout.

2. Don’t Rush To Her Vagina

This is the common complaint among women. Men love to rush things and head straight to humping. Apparently, it doesn’t work that way for women.
Women want to feel desired and wanted and the best way to do that is to pay attention to her needs, including other areas of her body. If you rush into her area down south, then it only means one thing: you don’t care about her sexual needs too.
Therefore, be the better man and make it an effort to focus on other sensitive areas of her body – neck, ears, thighs and even her feet. Kiss her passionately, then head down south. Make sure to enjoy every inch of her bodybefore you hit the break. If it helps, give her a massage and let your hands run the show – at least for now.
Her vagina is the main act, but it needs its supporting actors for it to function well.

3. Find The Perfect Spot And Position

Oral sex means your girl lying down on the bed while you do your thing. It’s her most comfortable position and remember how important comfort is, right? The good news is there’s still something you can do to add to her comfort.
Place a pillow under her butt to lift her pelvis up. This could give you a great leverage, which makes it easier for you to do your job down there. At the same time, this will make it easier for her to widen her legs.
The wider her legs are, the easier and better you can work with, thereby increasing sensation. In effect, this makes it more pleasurable for her.
Oh, and don’t forget to get comfortable as you head down south. This will make it easier and longer for you as you go to town.

4. Do More Than Just ABC

This is perhaps one of the oldest tricks in the Book of Sex. Your grandfather or father might say that to go down south, use your tongue and write the entire alphabet. The downside of this technique is that you are only limited to letters. Once you hit Z, does this mean you should stop too?
Of course not. The key here is to get past ABC and think of other techniques that will help you stay down there a bit longer.
Instead of writing the big and small versions, spell out a three or four letter word that begins with the said letter. You can also imagine your tongue as a clock and make her guess what time is it.
The point is spend some time in town. She’s going to love it too.

5. Pay Attention To Her Response

Aside from keeping your girl comfortable, paying attention to her body responses is important. This is because every breath, hmm’s, ahhh’s, hip movements and whatever body language will tell you whether she likes what you are doing or not.
If you are just focused down there and don’t even bother looking at her, then you better stop what you are doing because that’s not the right way to give oral.
While you’re down there, listen and pay attention to how she responds. Monitor her breathing, since this can be a good gauge if you’re turning her on or not.
Look into her eyes and tell her how much you enjoy spending time down there. This way, you are able to establish connection and intimacy – something your girl will love.

6. Say Hello To Her Vibrator

Who says vibrators are only a woman’s best friend when you’re not around? When giving her an oral, don’t hesitate to bring out the vibrator.Believe it or not, this can be an indispensable tool in the oral department. Plus, an average woman takes 20 minutes to reach climax from oral sex. This means you need to spend a lot of time down there if you want to provide pleasure.
Of course, your tongue and fingers need some rest, too. This is where a vibrator comes in. It can be your wingman just in case you need some help.
However, don’t rely too much on it. You’re still her main actor, so make sure to do your job, too.

7. The Clitoris

Once you’ve written the alphabet, acted as a tongue clock and used the vibrator, it’s now time to visit another star of the show – her clitoris. It is located at the top of her vagina, right where the labia meets, and covered by a hood of flesh. However, you have to be careful on this one.
A woman’s clit can be sensitive, so make sure not to put too much pressure on it. However, there are women who like vigorous action; hence asking her of her preferred speed is a must.
A piece of advice: don’t flick her bean. Just rub it gently with your fingers, use your tongue to create a circle around the area then gently suck on it.
Again, the operative word here is gently, so take it easy and don’t get carried away.

8. The Crescendo

You might ask, “How fast or slow should I go when I give her an oral?” Think about this – crescendo.The buildup should be like a crescendo wherein you go fast gradually. The key here is to take it slow and don’t pretend as if your tongue is a machine gun.
Remember tip number five – “pay attention to her response.” Your tongue-finger combination must be dependent on her body responses. If she wants you to take it slow or stop, just do it. Keep in mind that you are working with a real-life vagina, not ice cream or lollipop. You should do better than that.

9. Communicate

This is another important tip you need to remember. To establish emotional and physical intimacy, you and your girl must be sensitive enough to understand the needs of each other. One of the best ways to do that is to communicate.
It can either be verbal or non-verbal cues. Let her speak up in case she is or she is not comfortable with what you are doing. Or you can establish your own code like a tap or saying “Oohhh” if she feels pleasure.
The important thing is to set up your own feedback system or code that only you two will understand. This way, it will be easier to tell if she likes what you are doing or not.

10. The Grand Finale

You always hear people say, “End it with a bang.” Well, you have to apply it here. And if you want to make a statement, then ending it with a bang is a must.
So, how do you do it?
When you feel like she is about to come, don’t stop and let her climax. However, there are instances when she may not climax, so don’t feel bad about it. It is not a reflection of your ability or the lack thereof.
Some women can’t climax on oral sex alone, while there are others who can. Your end goal is to make her feel good, to give her the best oral experience she’ll ever have, so focus on that. Relax, take a deep breath and do your job well.
So, are you ready to give her the best oral experience of her life?